
I love Bonfire night! Although I hate the thought of getting cold which is why I went full on ski gear this year so I wouldn’t get cold. And just between you and me I got a bit too hot! Shhh!
I love watching the fireworks. I love the pretty colours, the suspense and the surprise. I’m usually the one screaming when a loud banger has gone off because it’s caught me by surprise. And I love seeing the wonder on my children’s faces.
However I’m not so keen on the fireworks I witness in people’s relationships.
They aren’t pretty.
They are usually destructive.
The screams aren’t exhilarating but frightening.
It is messy and upsetting for everyone.
It isn’t uncommon for relationships to go through the firework stage. If you have shouted at your partner, said things you regret, flown off the handle then you aren’t alone. But we can all hopefully admit it’s not a good way of communicating.
I’m really excited about being able to offer Couples Counselling and will be opening my books at the end of November 2019.
If you want to bring the spark back into your relationship and stop the heated arguments that go nowhere and leave you both feeling burnt then contact me and book your first sessions.

Couples Counselling with me aims to:
- Help you find new and better ways of communicating.
- Help you understand each other.
- Work towards a new and exciting future.
Call me now to book your appointment 07743561802 or email me at contact@nicolahughes.co.uk
With warmth, Nicola x x